Christmas is a happy time where families and friends can get together and enjoy each other’s company whilst sharing hearty meals and exchanging gifts. However, for families where parents have separated, Christmas can be a stressful time for each other and also for the child involved.
You will want the child to spend with Christmas with you, and in most scenarios, the other parent will also expect the same.
After a family separation, most will negotiate parenting arrangements in order to consider the day to day activities of the child. However, many forget to specifically consider upcoming celebrations relating to Christmas Day and the actual day itself. We would highly recommend for you to start discussions early with your ex-partner in order for you to be at ease before all the busyness that comes with the Christmas period.
We understand that face to face discussions may not be possible in your situation, so perhaps you could try and use email or text to communicate your position. Once an arrangement has been discussed, we would highly recommend that it is written down and both parties have a copy in order to prevent any unnecessary miscommunication, distress and conflict.
If, however you are unable to come to an agreeable arrangement, please do not hesitate to contact the team at Freedman & Gopalan Solicitors on 02 8917 8700, and we’ll be happy to assist you and answer any queries or concerns you may have.